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How it Works
From the fifth chapter of the Big Book
Rarely have we seen a person fail who has thoroughly followed
our path. Those who do not recover are people who cannot or
will not completely give themselves to this simple program,
usually men and women who are constitutionally incapable of
being honest with themselves. There are such unfortunates.
They are not at fault; they seem to have been born that way.
They are naturally incapable of grasping and developing a
manner of living which demands rigorous honesty. Their chances
are less than average. There are those, too, who suffer from
grave emotional and mental disorders, but many of them do
recover if they have the capacity to be honest.
Our
stories disclose in a general way what we used to be like,
what happened, and what we are like now. If you have decided
you want what we have and are willing to go to any length to
get it-then you are ready to take certain steps.
At
some of these we balked. thought we could find an easier,
softer way. But we could not. With all the earnestness at our
command, we beg of you to be fearless and thorough from the
very start. Some of us have tried to hold on to our old ideas
and the result was nil until we let go absolutely.
Remember that we deal with alcohol-cunning, baffling,
powerful! Without help it is too much for us. But there is One
who has all power-that One is God. May you find Him now!
Half measures availed us nothing. We stood at the turning
point. we asked His protection and care with complete abandon.
Here are the steps we took, which are suggested as a
program of recovery:
1. We admitted we were powerless
over alcohol- that our lives had become unmanageable.
2. Came to believe that a Power greater than our-selves could
restore us to sanity.
3. Made a decision to turn our
will and our lives over to the care of God as we understood
Him.
4. Made a searching and fearless moral inventory
of ourselves.
5. Admitted to God, to ourselves, and to
another human being the exact nature of our wrongs.
6.
Were entirely ready to have God remove all these defects of
character.
7. Humbly asked Him to remove our
shortcomings.
8. Made a list of all persons we had
harmed, and became willing to make amends to them all.
9. Made direct amends to such people wherever possible, except
when to do so would injure them or others.
10.
Continued to take personal inventory and when we were wrong
promptly admitted it.
11. Sought through prayer and
meditation to improve our conscious contact with God as we
understood Him, praying only for knowledge of His will for us
and the power to carry that out.
12. Having had a
spiritual awakening as the result of these steps, we tried to
carry this message to alcoholics, and to practice these
principles in all our affairs.
Many of us exclaimed,
"What an order! I can't go through with it." Do not be
discouraged. No one among us has been able to maintain
anything like perfect adherence to these principles. We are
not saints. The point is, that we are willing to grow along
spiritual lines. The principles we have set down are guides to
progress. We claim spiritual progress rather than spiritual
perfection.
Our description of the alcoholic, the
chapter to the agnostic, and our personal adventure before and
after make clear three pertinent ideas:
(a) That we
were alcoholic and could not manage our own lives.
(b)
That probably no human power could have relieved our
alcoholism.
(c) That God could and would if He were
sought.
Reprinted from Alcoholics Anonymous , with
permission of A.A. World Services, Inc.
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